Are You Coming?: A Vagina Owner's Guide to Orgasm

Real talk: When's the last time you had an orgasm? If you're in the vagina owner's club, you may well answer: way too damn long! Studies show that only 65 percent of straight women climax during sex (versus 95 percent of men). And regardless of orientation, the unfortunate truth is: For those of us with vaginas, climaxing isn't guaranteed. No more! Are You Coming? invites everyone with a vagina to take their sex life to the next level. . . .

Come alone. For vagina owners, self-knowledge is the path to pleasure (yet, we've faced eons of misinformation). Are You Coming? explains all: anatomy, toys to try, and what works for dozens of real people--no two alike.

Come together! Seeking better sex with a partner? Read on for the thirteen types of orgasm, how to talk about sex (before and after), why "foreplay" is tragically misnamed, sex positions for every want and need--and more!

Complete with quickie tips, line drawings, and fun celebrity quotes, this is the orgasm-seeker's guide to "Oh!"

Are you coming?


About the Author
Hiddinga, Laura: - Laura Hiddinga is a journalist and writes for LotteLust, an online magazine for womxn who want to learn about sexuality, have fun, and fantasize. She lives in Amsterdam, in the Netherlands--a country widely regarded as boasting the most progressive sex education and sexual values in the world.