Understanding Lying and Stealing in Foster Children: Moving from Survival Behaviors to Secure Attachment - Paperback

**When foster children lie and steal, they're not being defiant-they're trying to survive.**

If you're a foster parent dealing with lying and stealing behaviors, you're not alone, and you're not failing.
These challenging behaviors are actually survival strategies that helped children navigate impossible situations before they came
to your home.

Drawing from more than a decade of fostering over 100 children, Juan Rodriguez Aceves offers a compassionate, trauma-informed
approach that transforms how you understand and respond to these behaviors. Instead of seeing lying and stealing as problems to
punish, you'll learn to recognize them as communication about what children need to feel safe and secure.

This practical guide provides:
Clear explanations of how trauma affects children's brains and behaviors
Specific strategies for responding with understanding rather than punishment
Step-by-step approaches to building trust and encouraging honesty
Real stories of children who moved from survival behaviors to secure attachment
Tools for creating safety that make lying and stealing unnecessary

Written in an accessible, conversational style, this book speaks directly to foster parents who want to see past behaviors to the hurt
underneath. You'll discover that with patience, consistency, and the right understanding, children can learn that survival mode is no
longer necessary.

**Healing is possible. Hope is real. And you are exactly the right person to help make it happen.**