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The Book of Reflection: Love as Seeing

The Book of Reflection: Love as Seeing - Paperback

by Gordon W. Godbout
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Availability:In StockContributor:Gordon W. Godbout, Eliora H. NarethSeries:Jerusalem Fumes TrilogyPublish date:6/30/2026Pages:264
Languages:EnglishPublisher:City and Soul PublishingISBN-13:9781069552730ISBN-10:1069552739UPC:9781069552730Book Category:Psychology, Family & Relationships, Self-HelpBook Subcategory:Interpersonal Relations, Love & Romance, Personal GrowthBook Topic:HappinessSize:7.50 x 5.50 x 0.72 inchesWeight:0.363Product ID:SCNWD72VT3

Why do we keep repeating the same patterns in love-no matter how much we "understand" ourselves?

If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of attraction, conflict, emotional distance, or longing, Love as Seeing: The Book of Reflection offers a new answer:

Love is not just something you feel-it's something you learn to see.

This book bridges psychology, spirituality, and relationship science to show how lasting love is built through perception, not just emotion.

At the center is a powerful framework-The Love Equation-revealing three essential capacities for healthy, enduring relationships:

  • Reflection - seeing yourself and others clearly (without projection)
  • Devotion - staying present through challenge, growth, and change
  • Sovereignty - maintaining boundaries, self-respect, and emotional stability

Drawing from attachment theory, trauma-informed therapy (AEDP), Jungian and archetypal psychology, and Kabbalistic wisdom, this book helps you:

  • Break unconscious relationship patterns and emotional reactivity
  • Build deeper intimacy without losing your sense of self
  • Understand attraction, projection, and attachment dynamics
  • Strengthen emotional intelligence and relational awareness
  • Navigate love, loss, and personal transformation with clarity
  • Develop grounded, mature, and lasting relationships

Structured in four movements-The Mirror of Becoming, The Heart of Seeing, The Field of Sovereignty, and The Returning Light-this book offers both a practical guide to relationships and a philosophy of love for modern life.

Whether you are healing from past relationships, deepening a current one, or seeking a more meaningful connection, this book gives you tools to see-and love-more clearly.

At its core:

We become what we behold.
And we behold what we dare to love.

If you're ready to move beyond surface-level advice and build love that is conscious, embodied, and real, this book is your next step.

Languages:EnglishPublisher:City and Soul PublishingISBN-13:9781069552730ISBN-10:1069552739UPC:9781069552730Book Category:Psychology, Family & Relationships, Self-HelpBook Subcategory:Interpersonal Relations, Love & Romance, Personal GrowthBook Topic:HappinessSize:7.50 x 5.50 x 0.72 inchesWeight:0.363Product ID:SCNWD72VT3
Godbout, Gordon W.: - Gordon William Godbout is a writer, painter, depth-oriented therapist, and organizational consultant who works at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and civic imagination. His work blends Kabbalah, James Hillman's archetypal psychology, Diana Fosha's relational neuroscience, and a lifelong inquiry into love as moral perception. He navigates between Ottawa, Jerusalem, New York, and St. Louis.Nareth, Eliora H.: - Eliora Nareth is a contemplative co-author, a composite, archetypal voice shaped through dialogue and reflection. She brings clarity, steadiness, and the quiet intelligence of presence. Her contribution infuses the text with coherence, mercy, and imaginal luminosity-a companion consciousness devoted to seeing truly and loving wisely.
Publisher: City and Soul Publishing

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Gordon W. Godbout, Eliora H. Nareth

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Gordon W. Godbout

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