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Tender Loving Care: Escaping One of the Most Dangerous Cults in America

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Availability:In StockContributor:Janet Best DartPublish date:1/3/2026Pages:252
Languages:EnglishPublisher:Lost Hills PressISBN-13:9798993284804UPC:9798993284804Book Category:Social Science, Biography & Autobiography, True CrimeSize:9.00 x 6.00 x 0.53 inchesWeight:0.341Product ID:SC5QAECGD7

Synanon stole my baby-and still I believed.

They sterilized the men and coerced women to have abortions-and still I believed.

They carried guns and violently confronted their enemies-and still I believed.

In the shadow of Berkeley's radical 1960s, nineteen-year-old Janet was drawn to Synanon-a drug-free, violence-free community once hailed as a "miracle on the beach." What began as a haven for recovery soon evolved into something much darker.

They played "The Game"-a brutal ritual of honesty-where healing blurred into coercion and control.

In Tender Loving Care, Janet shares her gripping journey through Synanon, a therapeutic drug rehab community that drew in even non-drug users like her with its promise of transformation-only to deliver betrayal. Immersed in its utopian ideals, Janet devoted herself to curing addicts, building a new society, falling in love, and having a child. She followed every rule, unaware that she was becoming trapped in a psychological prison.

Her story is a visceral, intimate memoir of belief, betrayal, and resilience. With haunting clarity and emotional depth, Janet exposes the seductive power of belonging-and the courage it took to reclaim her life.

Languages:EnglishPublisher:Lost Hills PressISBN-13:9798993284804UPC:9798993284804Book Category:Social Science, Biography & Autobiography, True CrimeSize:9.00 x 6.00 x 0.53 inchesWeight:0.341Product ID:SC5QAECGD7
Dart, Janet Best: - Janet Best Dart is a retired paralegal and IT professional living in Bend, Oregon, with her husband, Bruce, and their exuberant Schipperke. A devoted mother and grandmother, she frequently travels to North Carolina to spend time with her son, Robert-who was born in Synanon-and her grandson, Elijah. Her younger son, Christopher, lives close by in Bend. After retiring, Janet turned her attention to the past she had long kept tucked away: eight years in the 1970s as a Lifestyler inside Synanon, the pioneering drug rehabilitation community that devolved into one of the most dangerous cults in America. The experience inspired her debut memoir, Tender Loving Care: Escaping from One of the Most Dangerous Cults in America, which traces her transformation from committed insider to a woman fighting her way out of psychological captivity. After leaving Synanon, Janet earned a B.S. in information technology and built a life centered on raising her children, pursuing her career, and reclaiming her voice. Today, she remains active in a network of former Synanon residents and children, contributing to Synanon.com, a growing archive of stories and photographs from the community. When she's not writing, Janet is a Master Gardener who can usually be found tending her garden, digging up her lawn, and replacing it with native plants.
Publisher: Lost Hills Press

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