R U Looking?: A Guide to Navigating Gay Dating - Paperback

Gentlemen, does any of this sound familiar?

- You meet a great guy, go out on a great date-and then never hear from him again.
- You go out to a hot bar or nightclub, but you can't make a meaningful connection.
- You do your best, but sometimes feel like you're invisible to other gay men.
- You are afraid that you've let a failed relationship eat away at your self-esteem.

If so, you're not alone. These are all valid concerns that most of us have encountered at some point in our dating lives. Meeting Mr. Right isn't any easier now than it was ten years ago, despite the proliferation of social media, cell phones, and dating sites.

In this guide, Selrach Smith, a fellow veteran of the dating wars, shares his best advice, perspective, and support. He discusses everything you need to know to take optimistic and productive control of your dating life, no matter how or where you meet people. You'll learn some powerful tips and simple life lessons to take the confusion out of meeting new people and making a great first impression.

With these tools, you can learn how to avoid a world of headache and heartache. If you're looking for a way to take back some of the power, read on. You're not alone-and you don't need to be alone. The power is in your hands now.