Is it Autism, ADHD, Adolescence, or A-hole...Or Is It Me?: Discerning Disability from Defiance -- Practical Tools for Setting Boundaries and Respondin - Paperback

Parents of adolescents with autism and ADHD often struggle to understand whether difficult behavior is part of a disability, typical developmental change, or simple defiance. Licensed mental health counselor and parent Douglas Hodges offers a practical framework for distinguishing between these influences and responding appropriately. This book provides concrete strategies for setting boundaries, addressing unsafe or inappropriate behavior, and supporting growth while preserving the parent-child relationship. Written from both clinical experience and lived parenting, it helps caregivers respond with clarity, consistency, and compassion.